To walk on fire? Isn't it cool?
By Rajeev Nair
I WAS NOT GOING TO DO IT. NO WAY WAS I going to be part of this management mumbo-jumbo.. Walk on fire! Bare foot? My foot! So it was, with all cynicism, that I met Martin Sterling of MIB Global. For a martial arts exponent turned management expert, wasn't he convincing (see side story)!
I wonder aloud: "Can I be at your fire-walk training?" "Oh you must and you should also try it out," says Sterling. Fear, I realised again at that moment, is leaden cold. I could feel a tremble. I swore myself that under no circumstance would I do the fire-walk. I am a reporter, you see. I don't kill. I report murders. I don't fire-walk. I simply report on fires.
But what the blazes, I decided to give it a shot anyway, blistered feet be damned! Along with the management team of Gulf Training Solutions and a few students, there I was in their training room, eyes closed, acting out how I look when I feel cheesy, concerned or incredibly happy. Reporters don't stand with their eyes closed. I feigned an eyesore, rubbed my eyes, took sly glances, saw the 20 odd men strike various postures. until Steve Drake, also of MIB, caught me. I winked and closed my eyes hard.
The postures were to help understand yourself better. How do you hold your head, stoop your shoulders or transfer your body weight when you are concerned, sad or happy? How does the body language change in different situations? Sterling explained the physics of burning coal; he reassured us that in the 5,000-odd firewalks his organisation had held around the world, there never has been an injury nor a blistered feet. But then, I hadn't been on their training sessions! Sterling then hit a raw nerve. He talked about fear. "A hero and a coward - both feel fear. You can control it or be a victim. So what are you going to do with your fear?"
I am a reporter. I have your quotes. I can walk out. But I stay. "Fear is a signal," Sterling continues. "It prepares you for action." The MIB team moved on to the next lesson, which was about breaking the shell of embarrassment in us all. We cut invisible lemons with invisible knives, sucked its juice and felt it sliding down our arms. That was another lesson for the day: "Reality is far removed from your false beliefs." Otherwise, why did the leftie shift his "invisible" knife to his left hand?

